“I thought of that years ago.”
“I was going to do that.”
Have you ever noticed how possessive we can be of our ideas? How we’ll feel robbed when someone else acts on them?
Why the heck are we like this?!
I guess it has to do with the fact that we call them our ideas. As though they belong to us and no one else could have thought of them.
However we probably came up with the idea for the thing (product, business, song, painting, book, etc…) because we felt the world needed it—a solution to a problem or something to fill a need people have—and if that’s the case shouldn’t we be happy that it’s out there improving people’s lives, even if we weren’t the ones to make it happen? Shouldn’t we take it as a signal that the market’s ready for more of whatever the thing is?
Why instead do we feel all kinds of resentful and jealous?
I mean, we can’t do it all. We can’t act on every idea we get. We have to intentionally choose which thing we’re going to work on right now. That means letting some of our ideas go and that’s OK. Someone else will have the idea and run with it (because no, our ideas aren’t unique), maybe even doing a better job with it than we could’ve. Or maybe we’ll come back to it down the line…
Point is, we need to let go of some ideas (and not feel so damn guilty about it) so we can put all our energy towards the ones that matter the most to us right now.
The whole, “you can do anything once you stop trying to do everything” platitude.
A little New-Year-newfound-desire-to-do-all-the-things thought for you…
Why yes this little riff was inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert’s take on ideas in Big Magic.
Photo taken at The Met this past fall in during a day of gallery wandering in Manhattan. Because museums and galleries are a breeding ground for, “Hey! That was my idea.”