It’s not about you.
File that under: Things I Wish I Learned Sooner and Still Have to Remind Myself of Daily.*
Whenever I’ve been stuck—like really, truly, existential-level stuck—it’s because I was thinking about myself.
What am I?
What’s my passion?
What should I do with my life?
How do I get people to understand me?
These journaling prompts didn’t lead me to clarity. They didn’t help me “get unstuck and find my life’s work”. They just dug me deeper into self-doubt and inaction.
It’s only when I flipped it around—when I started thinking about others first—that I got traction.
How can I be helpful?
Where can I make a difference?
How can I help others feel understood?
That’s where the answers are, folks.
Focus less on being seen, and more on helping others feel seen.
Your work isn’t about you. It’s about who you’re helping.
Any that gets way easier when you take your ego out of it.
SOS! Taken in Malmo, Sweden.
*Anyone have a label maker I can fit that on?